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I Am Hillary Clinton

  • Mar. 17th, 2008 at 6:33 PM
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This campaign, thought up by the inimitable Red Queen, is a public expression of the outrage that many of us feel at the hatred directed at Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton.  I, as both a Hillary Clinton supporter, and as a person who realizes that these attacks are not just about Hillary but about me, am taking this moment to stand and say that I am Hillary Clinton

When Senator Obama attempts to diminish legitimate criticism of him by a strong and well respected opponent by saying that she "periodically feels down," this is not just an unconscionable slur towards Senator Clinton, but it is a reminder to me that if I speak up for myself , I will not be taken seriously. Instead, I will be trivialized, humiliated, defined by a simple and healthy process of my body which has nothing to do with the occasion at hand except that I am a woman, and therefore, what I say should be accorded no merit. 

When Senator Obama downplays a disagreement from a political opponent as saying that "the claws come out," he is actively and carefully choosing language which casts that disagreement as less valid because it comes from Senator Clinton. 

When Senator Obama attempts to discredit Senator Clinton by saying "I don't know which Clinton I'm running against," while sitting on stage two feet away from Senator Clinton, it is not just a willful mischaracterization of her campaign, but it is a clear statement to me that because I am a woman, my marital status will always define me to some people.  No matter how important my job, no matter how well-respected I am, what my husband says will still be more important than what I say, and if I do not have a husband, I will be incomplete.

When Senator Obama derides the eight years of political and diplomatic service First Lady Hillary Clinton gave to this country as "tea parties with ambassadors," he is personally benefiting from a patriarchal system which only values work done by men, and grants the value of work done by women to men, and because I am not a man, he is saying that whatever work I do, its value belongs to someone else.

When Senator Obama asserts that Clinton voters may vote for him, but his supporters will not support her, this is not just an attack on the candidate I support, but an outright assumption that even in the face of such statements against me, I will hand over my support unquestioningly.

When voters and media outlets willfully ignore this pattern of misogyny in order to characterize the Obama campaign "clean" or "positive," they are actively asserting that the sexism directed at Senator Clinton, and at all of us who do not live our lives as masculine men in male bodies, is acceptable and should be rewarded.  Active hatred directed at me is acceptable and deserving of the most powerful office in the country; perhaps in the world. 

When Senator Clinton is accused of "pimping out" her own daughter, because an adult Chelsea Clinton has decided to campaign for her mother, it is not just a vile attack on Senator Clinton, but an active attempt to cheapen the relationship between mothers and daughters.  It implies that when I help my mother because I believe in and care about her, she is a madam and I am a whore

When Senator Clinton is criticized as "negative," or "ambitious," or any of the other traits necessarily shared by all politicians, it is a reminder that should I ever achieve success, the qualities necessary for that success will be used to discredit me.

When Senator Clinton is singled out for unpopular or difficult positions held by both candidates, it is not only a distortion of the political facts, but it is also an unquestioned acceptance and perpetuation of the cultural maxim that says "a woman must be twice as good to receive half as much credit as a man."  It is a reminder that no matter what I do, I will not be good enough.

When political pundits and bloggers blame or project the shortcomings and hypocrisies of the Obama campaign onto the Clinton campaign, they are not only grossly mischaracterizing the facts of the primary thus far, but they are telling me that I must not only atone for my own sins, but for someone else's. 

When those political inconsistencies which benefit Senator Clinton are denounced constantly as undemocratic, but those political inconsistencies which benefit Senator Obama are praised as unproblematic traditional aspects of our system, it is a reminder to me that because I am a woman, I will be crucified for someone else's wrongdoing, because when well-liked men make poor choices, we must have a scapegoat, and I am less important and can be sacrificed.

I will not be shamed or frightened by these tactics.  I support Senator Clinton.  I stand behind her with ferocity and pride. 

I am Hillary Clinton.

Comments

[info]neurotic_orchid wrote:
Mar. 17th, 2008 11:42 pm (UTC)
This is soo powerful to me, and it's exactly how I've been feeling through this whole campaign process.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 17th, 2008 11:56 pm (UTC)
That means a lot, thank you!

No pressure but YOU SHOULD TOTALLY DO ONE TOO. You know, if you feel like it.
[info]neurotic_orchid wrote:
Mar. 18th, 2008 12:12 am (UTC)
I'm not really educated or eloquent enough to give it a try. I wouldn't have a clue what to say. I'm not good at debating or coming up with links and facts to support my opinions. lol

But thankfully there are people like you to fill in the gaps.
(Anonymous) wrote:
Mar. 18th, 2008 01:19 am (UTC)
Red Queen, again
I don't have an open id account cause I use blogger- so blogger really needs to get on the open id wagon.

Anywhoo- this is awesome, I have been all sorts of happy teary eyed all day. And you don't have to be well versed to do this, you just gotta write down the stuff they've said about Hillary that made you feel crappy. Hell, most of my post started with me googling typical phrases like too emotional + Hillary Clinton.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 18th, 2008 02:17 am (UTC)
Re: Red Queen, again
Whew, I'm so glad you liked. This thing you started is wonderful.
[info]catch22girl wrote:
Mar. 18th, 2008 02:27 am (UTC)
Incredible essay.

It's so how I feel. I wish I could scream it from the rooftops.

[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 18th, 2008 06:48 am (UTC)
I'm really glad you liked it! You should totally do one!
[info]schmancydarling wrote:
Mar. 18th, 2008 04:16 am (UTC)
Wow. That was amazing. Brava!
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 18th, 2008 06:50 am (UTC)
Oh, thanks so much, I'm really glad you liked. We're shamelessly collecting them over at H1K if you want to participate!
[info]zimbalist wrote:
Mar. 18th, 2008 06:21 am (UTC)
Beautiful. Thank you so much for this.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 18th, 2008 06:51 am (UTC)
That's so kind, thank you so much for reading! We are shamelessly collecting over at H1K if you're interested.
[info]tinpra wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 01:53 am (UTC)
*applauds* A friend of mine mentioned the campaign in her lj post and when I asked her about it she linked me here. It definitely coalesces the underlying feeling that seems to be floating around about Hillary, at least for me. Thank you.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 03:31 am (UTC)
That's very kind, I'm so glad it resonated for you.
(Anonymous) wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 05:48 pm (UTC)
Thank you
Pizza Diavola directed me here. Thank you for expressing what so many of us have been feeling. Additionally, you may want to read this excellent piece by Robin Morgan:

http://www.womensmediacenter.com/ex/020108.html
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 06:07 pm (UTC)
Re: Thank you
What a wonderful compliment, thank you.

I know that essay caused a little bit of a stir, but to be honest, I loved it.
[info]st_salieri wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 05:52 pm (UTC)
Fantastic and powerful. Thank you.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 06:07 pm (UTC)
Thank you for reading, I'm so glad it rang true for you.
[info]imperfectmanx wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 09:00 pm (UTC)
I love this piece. It is everything that is wrong with the Obama campaign and everything that is wrong with the world.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 11:10 pm (UTC)
I'm so excited that you liked it! Thanks!
[info]elphaba_of_oz wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 09:16 pm (UTC)
Popped in from a friend's journal. I want to hug you. I am Hillary too.

If you don't mind I would like to link to this post.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 11:12 pm (UTC)
Of course I don't mind, I'm so happy to see so many women standing up for ourselves!

*hugs you back* She can do it!
(Anonymous) wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 09:33 pm (UTC)
Rousing applause
I'm a middle-aged woman who has had to live with this crap all my life. I'm printing it out for my 92-year old mother. She'll love it.

And I'm going to use that from now on: you attack Hillary, you attack me. Thanks.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 11:13 pm (UTC)
Re: Rousing applause
What a wonderful thing to say, I hope your mother likes it.
(Anonymous) wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 11:13 pm (UTC)
misogyny
Misogyny wasn't invented by Senator Obama, but he's played to it. His base is Hillary haters and they love it when he's dismissive and denigrates her experience. I tool feel like it's aimed at me. when he made that speech Maureen Dowd thought was so great, where he said her experience was being married to Bill and even his wife laughed, I lost my balance. Before then she was my first choice and he was an okay choice, but those hate politics were supposed to end with him, not be used by him. And it's always so okay to use the tired old sexist theme, she slept her way to the top, that there is really no use in pointing it out. One good thing is that a lot of us have noticed and we don't like it. Obama is supposed to have this great judgment, but somehow he couldn't even begin his campaign without dismissing me. Fortunately her polls have started to climb since she made her great exit Iraq speech last Monday. Murtha has endorsed her and she has active military who clearly want us all the way out of Iraq. Obama wants to bring private armies under the rule of law, while she's cosponsored legislation to ban them. Wonder what Rudy thinks? That's his business she wants to ban, cool or what?
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 11:18 pm (UTC)
Re: misogyny
It makes me angry, too - and it hurts - not just that he does it, but that then when he shakes his head all sad and solemn and bemoans how she's going negative. Oooooh, it makes me want to throw something. Treating 60% of the Democratic party like shit isn't exactly unifying.
[info]germaine_pet wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 11:49 pm (UTC)
Sing it, sister.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 20th, 2008 12:26 am (UTC)
As loud as I can!
(Anonymous) wrote:
Mar. 19th, 2008 11:59 pm (UTC)
I am Hillary Clinton
Right on! I thought of this a while ago--it would be a great video if someone used girls and women of different ages, and they all stated, "I am Hillary Clinton," like the movie "Spartacus." She is courageously taking the heat for generations of women, and many of us are awed by her strength. To me, she is heroic. I, too, stand behind her with ferocity and pride.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 20th, 2008 12:29 am (UTC)
Re: I am Hillary Clinton
It makes me think of that, too.

She is totally heroic. I can't even imagine what she's going through for us. America is lucky to have her.
[info]pixxelpuss wrote:
Mar. 20th, 2008 12:45 am (UTC)
I love this. I may try to write one later, but it's breaking my heart because I think only two people on flist will get it.

But I might do it.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 20th, 2008 12:53 am (UTC)
DO IT OMG yours would be so awesome. Even if your f-list might not get it, the more times this statement is out there, the stronger it is.

Plus yours would be SO AWESOME.
[info]celiloquy wrote:
Mar. 20th, 2008 02:43 am (UTC)
Echoing what everyone else has said; this is wonderful, and thank you so much. :)
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 20th, 2008 03:32 am (UTC)
Oh, thank you.
[info]friscoteque wrote:
Mar. 20th, 2008 08:27 am (UTC)
BRAVO!! Thanks so much for writing this!

I was angered the other night when I saw the video of Obama's pastor saying, "Hillary has never been called a n*gger". Well maybe not, but I'll bet she knows what it's like to be called a bitch, a whore, a c*nt, or any of the other slurs that get slapped on smart women. I'll bet she knows what it's like to earn less than a man for the same work; to hold a strong opinion and have it belittled as a symptom of "PMS"; and to have a momemnt of empathy be labeled "emotionalism" or "weakness". She knows what it's like to be slammed for "standing by her man", knowing full well the "other half" would have ripped her apart if she didn't.

I am a woman and I am proud to stand with Hillary. Don't Tread On Us.
[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 20th, 2008 03:45 pm (UTC)
I agree. It's not a zero sum game. We can acknowledge racism AND sexism AND say they are both bad and we should work to end them.

Don't Tread On Us. Beautifully put and exactly right.
(Anonymous) wrote:
Mar. 20th, 2008 07:15 pm (UTC)
Brava!
THIS is the real authentic change we've waiting for. Thank you thank you thank you.

My partner and I listened to this twice last night (on a Mac you can easily select text and have the computer say it out loud for you).

I was so inspired that I created a blog last night and did my own post. I'm still trying to learn the blogger site, but check it out: http://big-daddy-sweet-baby-cheesecakes.blogspot.com/

I think this is going to get bigger and bigger. Let's spread the word!

[info]pocochina wrote:
Mar. 20th, 2008 09:43 pm (UTC)
Re: Brava!
What a wonderful thing to say. Thank you.
(Anonymous) wrote:
Apr. 18th, 2008 11:26 pm (UTC)
Hillary Needs Us
Facts are facts, women are victims of a 20% wage gap that has held steady for 14 years and which experts acknowledge can only be explained by discrimination, see Evelyn Murphy's work on: www.wageproject.org

The fact is that one in three women is a victim of violence; Every 9 seconds a woman in the U.S. is physically assaulted (www.womaninc.org), with men as the batterers. The United States ranks 70th in the world in the number of women it has elected to office, between Cambodia and Zimbabwe, according to www.ipu.org.

Hillary's candidacy has been a joke to the reporters who are sent to cover her, and when things that are important are said by her, she is belittled or ignored. For example, in the hospital story where she was accused of "being a liar," the fact is that Trina Bachtel's death is a tragedy and it shows how horrible our healthcare system is that a pregnant lady is made to feel that she cannot go to a hospital because she owes $100. How can the culprit in this story be Hillary Clinton, who retold the story to illustrate what she has been fighting for: universal healthcare.

See: Health Care Horror Stories, By PAUL KRUGMAN, New York TImes:

"Stories like those of Trina Bachtel and Monique White are common in America, but don’t happen in any other rich country — because every other advanced nation has some form of universal health insurance. We should, too.... After all the fuss, The Washington Post eventually conceded that “Bachtel’s medical tragedy began with circumstances very close to the essence” of Mrs. Clinton’s account.

And even more important, Mrs. Clinton was making a valid point about the state of health care in this country."

Please watch some videos that can inform more about who Hillary is, the Hillary that I see, and what she has had to endure:

Sexism, Misogyny, Women's History & Hillary Clinton (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eseoMOEaFnM)

Hillary Clinton's Accomplishments (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qG-dkgaJ_7I)

Hillary is a Fighter (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjEnLkefqGY)

Who Hillary Clinton Really Is (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fnLM80ucv3U)
[info]pocochina wrote:
Apr. 19th, 2008 12:53 am (UTC)
Re: Hillary Needs Us
She sure does! Thanks for the links!